Guys using your past against you

Okay, so everyone knows that I am single again. If you haven't heard, well now you know. My recent ex broke up with me over FACEBOOK! That is right over stupid Facebook. All I have to say about that is it was the worst reason to break up, but that is what I get for not finding someone that doesn't want to stick up for his woman against his family. Anyways, I am done with that.

So now again I am looking for a good man again. I am looking on websites like OkCupid and PlentyOfFish. No luck so far. See I go through a pre-screening process with a man to find out if he is an ass, prevert, or just looking for sex. My questions usually work because I end up finding out their real intentions. So this has saved me a lot of trouble and time with these types of men. So I keep looking. I will sometimes find a good guy and he has all that I am looking for in a man, but later find out they fall along the same lies as my ex's and I move on.

See my First Ex had no motivation to want to better himself for himself. I tried, but it didn't work. That was a 4 year relationship that I learned a lot from during that time. I had broke up with him once and then decided to get back together again hoping for a better second time. Nope I was wrong and I broke up with him.

My Second Ex was too much of a daddy's boy. He did everything his daddy told him and he couldn't separate from him to be the man I thought you could be. Oh, I also dated him once before too and got back together with him again too. This relationship lasted 2 years. He was the one that broke up with me over Facebook.

Anyways, I bring this up because yesterday I was talking to a guy about past relationships because he thought I would make him prove to me that he wasn't like them. I don't think they need to prove that to me. I will know when I ask certain questions and know by how they answer them. Well, this guy on a first conversation on the phone was telling me what to do with my life. He told me to tell my friends to watch there own kids, all because he wanted to see me that night. I was like I have my own plans and I won't change them for anyone. Once I say I will do something for someone I stick to it. Plus, I told him, he doesn't now me or my friends and I wouldn't tell him what to do with his friend. At this point in my head a HUGE RED FLAG was going off. I knew he wouldn't get along with my friends. At this point he was pissing me off.

The guy then switches the subject on me and uses my past against me. I was on the defense mode now. I knew I made mistakes in my past and I can admit to it. That is why I am not doing it again. So this asshole of a guy was pissing me off so fast I just wanted to punch him if I met him. So then I told him I wanted to get off the phone. He said, "Why because your mad." I explained myself again then he pissed me off even more. So I told him I am getting off the phone. He said that same thing again and I said, "Yes, bye." I hung up on his ass. This guy is the biggest ass ever!

So now I am back looking some more and watching out for those types of assholes out there. I know what I want and what I am looking for in a man. So if there are any men reading this, beware, I don't take crap from no man. If you still want to know me then treat a woman with respect and don't be aggressive on your first conversation with a woman.

Also, Men can't say that women use their past against the male population because the men do it to women too.