Ex-Boyfriends

The past can come and bite you in the butt when you least expect it. I know this because it has happened to me many times with my past. For example, Ex Boyfriends.

The reason I am bring this up is because that is what has happened to me lately. My ex-boyfriend was a pain in my butt when I was with him. He didn't want to get a job and he also didn't want to better himself like go to school. He also wasn't the type to help around the house, when we lived together. I felt let down by men. I felt that if anything was going to be done, I had to do it myself. So, I did.

I started by breaking up with him. I was hurt emotionally for a year and a half. I was with him for 4 years, but during that year and a half I learned a lot about myself. I learned to deal with money problems that he left me with better, I decided to go back to college for my degree(s), I lost my job, but found an even better one that works with my school schedule, my loving parents bought the car my ex couldn't pay for and a great man found me. (Current BF is the next blog.)

So after starting college and almost a year later, I get a letter from the apartments my Ex-Boyfriend was staying at and that I had co-signed for him saying that I owed money, when I haven't even stayed there not even once! So I had to fork for the money some money so the lawyers wouldn't take me to court. I only got this letter and more money problems because of him. I was starting to get over him and this happens.

Then I hear from some of my friends that he found a girlfriend not 6 months after we broke-up. This just tells me that he just wasn't that into me after all that time I had invested in him. So, that didn't help the situation either. So I back off and focus on my man and school.

Well, after graduating with my Associates of Applied Science Degree in Computer Animation, I decided to go for my Bachelors in Graphic Communication with a minor in Digital Video Production. After starting this degree, not two weeks before Spring 2010 finals, I find out that my ex is getting married to the girl he has been with since we broke up. This hurt because I never thought him to be the marrying type, but I guess I am wrong.

So, now I am being the better person here, because I have wished his fiancee and him the best in the world. I have forgave him a long time ago and I sincerely do wish him the best of luck in his life.