12 Ways to make 2014 the year you get what you want this year.

Here are some ideas to leave 2013 in the dust and start fresh in 2014. Please click the link below for the first 7 ways and here is three more for you to make it 12 ways.

First 7 ways to start off the new year.

http://www.inc.com/kevin-daum/7-ways-to-make-2014-the-best-year-youve-ever-had.html?cid=homesub1

8^th so for most people that I know had a really bad year. There is a phrase my mother said and I have to agree with her, “This year is like Friday the 13^th all freakin year.” I agree with her on that statement. So as one of my friends told me to do when I was getting close to my big 3 0 birthday. That’s right I am now in my 30s. Anyways, my friend told me to write down all my frustrations this month and burn them. Well I changed his month to the end of the year. For me it’s a burning of all the old crap that this year has done to me that is bad and to get rid of all the bad. So every bad feeling or thought you have write it on a piece of paper then BURN IT, bury it, or shred it.

9^th Now we are on the ninth thing on my list, which is to write your ultimate dream down on paper. Yeah, I want you to write what will make you most happy in detail. Write how you will feel, touch, see and taste in this ultimate dream. Write everything you want in this life. Then print it out two copies, one for you to keep and the other …well keep reading. Get a balloon with string and tie your letter to this balloon. On New Year’s Day I want you to take that balloon outside and read the copy version once then let it go. This represents that your dreams will take flight and you are letting it out into the world.

10^th Then I want you to write all your resolutions down on paper. Whether they are hobbies, interests, things you want to do, things you want to explore, and more. Just write them down and post them where you can see them every day and work on them. Print your resolutions and goals for the year so you can see them.

11^th After that I want you to make a creative vision board. From the 7 ways to make 2014 the best year you have ever had article. If you did write things down from each of the seven then make a visual board of the following:

·         Opportunities you want
·         3 obstacles to overcome
·         2 important skill to master
·         Schedule time with family or friends you want to meet or haven’t talked to in a while

And I am adding these ones.

·         Top 3 goals to drive towards
·         3 Words that describe (adjectives) you and your name. They must be positive words. This is also called an affirmation. Example: Beautiful, Confident and Successful Jennifer.
·         Find 3 positive famous quotes to keep you motivated.

Then after making your vision board...

12^th  Okay, here is the last thing, Journal or blog. I know its more work that you have to do, but it helps a lot. Plus you make be surprised what thoughts you have going through your head on a daily bases or what happens to you during your life. It may also help you relax.

This year is going to be a better year than last year.  I am just trying to help you to become more focused, motivated and driven this coming year. Please look at my pictures for examples from this year.

Happy New Year’s

Jennifer 

**Note** 

Top: Printed goals for 2013

Middle: Both Vision Board and Goals List.

Bottom: Vision Board

My Ultimate Dream

This is my letter that I am sending out to the world on New Year's Eve. I will explain what I am talking about at a later time. Anyways, as I was writing this I am thinking maybe I should be a writer. I hope you enjoy my dream.

Dear Reader,

Hello, my name is Jennifer. So, I read this book by Jullian Michaels on how to build an exceptional life. I love the book and it has helped me a lot. One of the work out exercises in the book is to write out our dream in detail. How it makes me feel, touch, sense, see, and hear my future. So this is my ultimate dream.

I wake up and feel fuzzy and warm. I feel great, amazing and important person. I am in my king size bed. I get up and look in the mirror and see that I am at my perfect body weight of 160 lbs, I am wearing silk PJs. It feels amazing. I look over to my right and see a window with beautiful view of a lake or ocean I can’t tell, it’s breath taking. Then I turn to where the mirror is and see a picture. A picture of me and my three amazing kids, 2 boys and my oldest a girl and a man, but before I can take a good look at him I hear movement in the bed, a body moves then long muscular tan arm reach to where I just slept. The person moans then flips the covers back and sits up. His brown medium hair is a mess and his beautiful face gives me, this please don’t make me open my eyes express, but I look at his upper muscular tan body a little longer. I think, man am I going to pouch on you when I get back. My sex goddess is awake again, damn it. But I decide to not say a word, as I walk to the master bathroom connected to room. I softly close the door and do my business then when I wash my hands and face, but as I stop to look at my face and wonder who’s life this is, but I push the thought aside and put the towel down. I hope then door and there stand the tall, hot muscular man. He looks at me with his blue eyes and that devilish smile of his…I freeze until…He pulls me close to him and kisses me. I melt ,but then the goddess takes over and I kiss back. He throws me on the bed then he goes to do his business. I am sitting here wondering what is going on then I remember it. All of it, I am successful graphic designer and video editor to the major films and local businesses. I own my own company; I have a new Van top drive kids around in and a Red Ford mustang convertible for me. I wear nice suits, but when I am home/office then I wear comfortable clothes. I work out every day for close to 2 hours. I also am…I am brought back to reality and being kissed passionately by this man. “Good morning hun, how are you? You looked a little off this morning, you feeling already?” He crests my face and looks at me with those blue eyes and then I see the ring on his left hand that was cresting me with and I grab it with my left hand and remember our amazing wedding and honeymoon. “I am great, just had a bad dream” I tell him. “Why did you get out of bed? The kids aren’t up yet we can fool around for a little before they get up” he tells me. He kisses me again and I let it over take me. Then I stop, I move away and freak out. I wiggle my way out and go to my closet to get changed. “What are you doing?” he asks me with a questioning look. “I am getting ready for work, duh? What does it look like I am doing?’ I give him that look. He comes over to me and grabs me then hauls me over her shoulders. I almost scream but stop, what should I except for my paramedic/firefighter husband. He walks me to the bed and says, “You’re not going anywhere, Jennifer. For one it’s Saturday and second, you have the day off, So Chill or not?” as he puts me on the bed slowly. Then he stops to kiss me. He puts me on my knee and something flips in my stomach. My hand goes over my stomach automatically. My husband looks down at my stomach and puts his hand over my stomach then looks at me then says, “So I see our little man is awake now too. I love you honey with all my heart.” I look at him shake my head and smile. Then I remember I am pregnant. “I love you too with all my heart, now and forever.”

That is my dream, to have a great family, amazing husband that loves me no matter what my size, how I look, or act. He loves me with all his heart. Plus I am a successful business woman and my own boss.

Thank you for reading. If this doesn’t get read then let it fly, fly high to the stars in the sky. Keep Dream and believe in yourself.

Sincerely,

Jennifer

Resolutions for the New Year 2014

So I will post what has been going on in my life later. Right now I am going to put up my goals for the 2014 year and I am going to make it a blast. I am more determined, focused and goal orientated then every before. I may add more blogs since I am getting into my career more and writing more too. Please write me what you think or what are your resolutions for the coming year?

So please check out my Doran Mass Media Blog too. Here is the link: http://doranmm.blogspot.com/

Here are my Resolutions for 2014:

Goals for the Year to GET DONE 2014

· FIND A JOB! FULL TIME WITH BENEFITS

·      Apply to 3 jobs a day

·      Learn to make a website

·      Look for Jobs in my Field

·      Learn Adobe Programs

·      Have confidence in your SELF and Career!

·      Start a branding of my business

·      Keep learning new things in the field

·     Lose 50 Pounds

·     Looking good in swim suit BY LOSING WEIGHT!!!!!!!!!

·     Eat better/ Healthier

·     Learn to cook healthier

·     STOP THINKING OF FOOD

·     Find an exercise that I like and DO it for 45 minutes a day.

·     Run in a Marathon

· Put yourself first!

· PUSH YOUR SELF

· Write in Journal about life

· Write in the other Journal about myself

· Get more Quotes

• Look for a good house I love or apartment
• Get taxes done
• Take better care of Tiger.
• Make a photo album of Tux. (Miss you baby)

·         Watch movies. You know which ones you want to see.

• Resign up for Health Insurance in September
• Enjoy Life
• RELAX !!!!!!!! HAVE FUN AND LIVE LIFE TO ITS FULLNESS
• Pay off things early like credit cards and Parents
• Pay OFF Credit Card and get Raid of it!
• BE more Sexual
• BE more Adventures
• BE more Fun
• BE more outgoing
• Write Jonathan Doran, and Sally Taylor more.
• Pay Bills on Time!
• Get Life Together
• Read More BOOKS like Bella Andre, Meg Cabot, J.K. Rowling, self-help, inspiritual, motivating books and others
• Go camping
• Start writing a scripts, stories, and poems
• Do more drawing and paintings
• Practice singing, writing songs, and playing my guitar
• Visit NEW PLACES- planetarium, Grand Rapids, Grand Haven, Cooper Bay
• Learn a new word each day.
• Learn more history
• Learn a foreign language
• Learn a new sport
• Take more pictures of my life
• Paint more things
• DO my Painting
• Make movie for my family
• Make a movie for my mom and dad
• Make a movie of the Doran Family
• Make a movie of the Callahan Family
• Buy Christmas things early
• Get a Wii Zumba Core
• Write everything down when I am on vacation
• Learn Health Problems and solve them
• Pay back bills
• Learn how to write a script
• WATCH SAILOR MOON SHOWS
• Get My Photo Albums done
• Get DoranMultimedia noticed more
•  Save for the following
• HD Camcorder
• Lighting Set
• Background Set
• Props
• Mics
• HD Camera
• Get myself a good Birthday Gift
• Write in my blogs more
• Keep up with my social media sites
• Give more compliments to people
• Keep reading advice about relationships and sex
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•  Oppurtunities:
• Get a job
• Get a job in my field
• Lose 50 lbs
• Meet more people in my field
• Get into art clubs
•  3 Obstacles to overcome
• Job
• Eating too much
• Learning
• 5 People to Meet
• Boss
• Clients
• Co-workers
• Boyfriend (If I am lucky)
• Business Owners
•  2 Important skills to master
• Programming
• Photoshop
• Schedule time with

·         Susanna

·         Mark

·         Dan

·         Cilla

Resolutions for 2013 (Done/Doing)

Hello everyone, So it's getting close to that time of year again. New Years Resolutions. Well these are Resolutions for this Past Year. I have marked in red what I have completed and what I am still working on.

Please enjoy your reading.

Goals for the Year to GET DONE 2013

• FIND A JOB! FULL TIME WITH BENEFITS (Still looking)
• Apply to 3 jobs a day (Still doing)
• FINISH Graphic Communication major/ minor Video Production Degree (DONE)
• Get taxes done (Tried but will do this year, I hope)
• Lose 30 Pounds (Did just the opposite, gained)
• Looking good in swim suit BY LOSING WEIGHT!!!!!!!!! (I did look great this summer)
• Eat better/ Healthier (Still working on it)
• Learn to cook healthier (Still working on it)
• STOP THINKING OF FOOD (Still working on it)
• Find an exercise that I like and DO it for 45 minutes a day. (I did, walking 3 to 6 miles upnorth, hiking and bike riding)
• DO Homework ASAP (Done)
• Take better care of Tiger. (Done/still doing)
• Take care of yourself first. (Done)
• Make a photo album of Tux. (Miss you baby)
•  Movies to Watch this year (Done)

• Resign up for Health Insurance in September (Done)
• Enjoy Life Always
• RELAX !!!!!!!! HAVE FUN AND LIVE LIFE TO ITS FULLNESS Always!
• Pay off things early like credit cards and Parents (Lost my job, so I need to work on it again)
• Pay OFF Credit Card and get Raid of it! (Lost my job, so I need to work on it again)
• Have confidence in your SELF! (Done, but now working on my career)
• BE more Sexual  (Done/Doing)
• BE more Adventures (Done/Doing)
• BE more Fun (Done/Doing)
• BE more outgoing (Done/Doing)
• Write Jonathan Doran, and Sally Taylor more. (Done/Doing)
• Pay Bills on Time! (Lost my job, so I need to work on it again)
• Get Life Together (Doing)
• Keep Motivation for School(Done)
• Read More BOOKS like Bella Andre, Meg Cabot, J.K. Rowling, and others (Doing)
• Write in Journal about life (Doing)
• Write in the other Journal about myself (/Doing)
• Get more Quotes (Doing)
• Going to Virgina Beach June (Done, broke up with friend.)
• Go see Rock of Ages February (Done)
• Go camping (Done)
• Start writing a scripts, stories, and poems (Doing)
• Do more drawing and paintings (Doing)
• Practice singing, writing songs, and playing my guitar(Doing)
• Visit NEW PLACES- planetarium, Grand Rapids, Grand Haven, Cooper Bay (Need to do this after I get a job)
• Learn a new word each day. (Doing)
• Learn more history (Doing)
• Learn a foreign language (Doing)
• Learn a new sport (Doing)
• Find a new church (Done)
• Take more pictures of my life (Doing)
• Learn to make a website (Doing)
• Paint more things (Doing)
• DO my Painting (Doing)
• Make movie for my family (Doing)
• Make a movie for my mom and dad (Doing)
• Make a movie of the Doran Family (Doing)
• Make a movie of the Callahan Family (Doing)
• Buy Christmas things early (Lost job)
• Learn Adobe Programs (Doing)
• Get a Wii with Wii Fit and Dance Dance Revolution (Got a just dance 2014, even better)
• Write everything down when I am on vacation (Doing)
• Learn Health Problems and solve them (Done)
• Look for a good house I love (JOB)
• Pay back bills (Job)
• Try to get a New MAC computer (Done
• Look for scholarships and loans for School (Done)
• Learn how to write a script (Doing)
• PUSH YOUR SELF (Doing)
• WATCH SAILOR MOON SHOWS(Doing)
• Find a sexy dress that makes me look great. (Done/Doing)
• Look for Jobs in my Field (Done/Doing)
• Get My Photo Albums done (Doing)
• Clean Attic of old kid toys (Done)
• Get DoranMultimedia noticed more (Job/working on it)
•  Save for the following
• HD Camcorder
• Lighting Set
• Background Set
• Props
• Mics
• HD Camera
• Get myself a good Birthday Gift (I will get it one day)